"I try not to ever speak of it. It's mostly repressed." He shuddered, for the most part for effect, admittedly.

"Really? I might not holler so much as ask politely in my inside voice, but thanks Cassie."

Cassie was in Xander's book of all right too-- she killed evil things, was cool and also pretty hot, even if that was less of a factor. But yes, he doesn't stare. He's all about the gentleman thing.