When she arrives, it is with folded arms. Controlled. Careful. Seeing him face to face is a thing she has to do -- that frustrated, angry part of her is left dissatisfied by playing audience to Damon's work. Buffy will never admit it to most people but she had wanted to sink her fists so badly into this situation.

Maybe seeing him caged up would make the difference. Provide her with something.

"You know me, always playing the polite one. Visiting's part of that."